People says “You’ll know immediately if you’ve found your soulmate just right after looking through her/his eyes.” But you know, people is different. Some are found at the first sights by their spiritual-speaking, but some need a space and time to learn from each other.
To give you some idea what have define as a soulmate:
“And when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other’s sight, as I may say, even for a moment.”— Plato.
“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person, we’re safe in our own paradise.”—Richard Bach.
These two quotes are the best. So Soulmate can possibly a friendship and a lover. I’ll tell you the good news, there’s some sings that lead you to find your soulmate.
1. You just feel it.
You will just know if that person is the right one. You feel complete and safe. You recognized the supreme security and power you feel each other. It’s a lifetimes discoveries. Perhaps you may say “if I know what is love, it is obviously because of you.” Through love, you understand everything and find out all the mysterious in life.
But for friendship, you will gain joyful, happiness and the beauty of life. A woman can live without a man but not a best friend. Like Candace Bushnell once said: “Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.”
2. You have a crossed path
Soulmate make you feel like knowing each other for years. You feel deeply connected and closed. Beside, you don’t feel loneliness while you’re alone, and therefore feel a joined each other strengths with a silent unspeakable memories. You never feel afraid to share a deeper conversation both success and failure.
3. You accept each other Flaws and Move forward
Of course, you learn how to forgive without a reason. You learn each other flaws and benefits from them. You even feel each other’s pain in a silent thoughts. You know and hear each other thinking just in a glance or without any specific verbal expression. And you come to love. You even can wait and married again. Do you believe so? Once you meant to be together you will committed to it no matter what goes wrongs.
4. You know you can share your life goal with each other
You share the same value, lifetimes goal and ethic. You’re always at the same page and work toward it. You laughed at each other insane and cheer whatever achievements. You always inspired each other. When you’re hug or holding each other hand, all pain, stress and anxiety are gone. You cheered the greatest moment.
5. You respect the differences
You genius liking each other. You respect, listen, appraise and honoured each other’s opinions and decisions. You don’t feel of threatening to breakup or divorce. If something bad happened, a real soulmate will calm down and aren’t nasty or hurt one another.
6. You’ve found your inner peace
After a stressful day at work or school, all you need is a warmth hug in a silent space. There’s no need a word to be spoken cos two soul meant to be together for eternally.
7. You want that person to be happy
If you’re giving in to make that person happy that is a greatest sign. The unhealthy or abusive relationship don’t feel or work this way. They want to win each other. But a soulmate to complete each other. To agree on something and share compassion toward one another. If someone look at you all these ways, keep them. Soulmate is rare but real.